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The art form idea comes in when guys touch each other. It's perfectly OK for a guy to touch another guy as long as it's done properly:
Play-hit, or hit for real, but don't touch him softly at all... squeeze hard, not soft, so it hurts him a little instead of just feeling warm -- Put an edge of aggression on it, and it's all OK.
Without that edge though it's just warm and nice, and that's not OK at all. So if you're both tired or watching a movie, you can't lay on each other just because it might feel nice to be close to someone that's important to you. You can however tackle each other -- in a room, on a lawn -- and wrestle... As long as someone's getting hurt a little, pretty much anything goes...
The same degree of contact can get you called a man or a woman, a jock or a fag, depending on how it's done:
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Above: The difference between jocks and fags
...between cultural heroes and cultural threats.
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